is it the spikey hair?

Monday I went to the grocery store. As I'm checking out, the teenage girl scanning my groceries asks if I live around here. I tell her I do. She then asks if I'm going to pride this weekend. I told her I don't know if I'm going or not. She says this will be her first one and she's going with her girlfriend. This exchange made me ask myself two questions. 1) Do I really look so gay that the checkout girl at Bruno's feels comfortable just to assume that I am....and 2) In this little town I live in, if there's a girl for her surely there's a girl for me right? Right?